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I shed one small tear at my Father’s memorial service. As I felt the sadness well in my throat, the most sensible thought popped into my mind.Old Man, Ithought, you had a good life.You were loved, knew it and you are no longer in pain. I have no need to cry. The truth is I was […]
My father’s memorial is a few hours away and all I can do is listen to music. I imagine being on stage with my band, great sound, lightning and food afterwards. We all need something to keep us going. A spark, a small thought that can grow and be nurtured with the right friends and […]
I spoke to my friend Noel today about Daddy dying. My brother picked up my phone, as I have not been answering any calls. I was rather proud of myself, I must admit. I sounded very together. Ask me how I am coping and my answer is simple: I cook. All mails or texts of […]
Before I share a small bit of writing I want to share something funny that happened a few minutes ago. The entire house was filled with family, my sister and the kids arrived, my father’s memorial is taking place rather soon. I walked into the lounge, the TV on full blast while my Mother and […]
The mind is a strange planet, and I know I am not alone. Your mind is just as odd as mine. Already I can feel a strategy brewing as to how to deal with my father’s death. On the one hand my mind says….hey, why be sad, the old dude is not missing. He is […]
Daddy’s dead. Two hours ago. I wonder as I write if this is who I am. One who seeks the solidity of words, as though they can anchor me here more than any person could. Words are safer and music safest. My Mother is a rock of course, her faith wrapped firmly around her with […]
It takes little to make me happy. Right now I am ecstatic! Gilda, founder of TLC Alzheimer’s Homes and my adopted granny just gave me….the coolest ever ….pair of woolen gloves in turquoise green! Along with recipes I must try out and spices. Oh and a matching turquoise woolen beanie!! Bliss. I am so happy! […]
Right, this is gonna download straight to your device. Just sharing thoughts music, creativity and how to go insane…with style. I do swear in places and I am horribly honest 🙁 Podcast:What’s Consuming You?
…because life is just never gonna be the same again. It’s called The End, inspired by a book on the Dark Ages. Written by Tom Holland. PS, this is a demo version of the song. It can be found on my Call it Love album which you can buy somewhere online. I am not being […]
It occurred to me this morning that I need to regain my focus. I had a conversation with a friend who is a prolific writer about the creative process yesterday. He is enjoying the freedom exploring other forms of writing provides and so asked me about my creative process. ‘I need stimuli” I said. Look, […]